{"id":698,"date":"2013-01-03T03:55:14","date_gmt":"2013-01-03T08:55:14","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.northernway.org\/weblog\/?p=698"},"modified":"2013-01-03T03:55:14","modified_gmt":"2013-01-03T08:55:14","slug":"instead-of-telling-kids-to-be-good-howabout-use-your-good","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.northernway.org\/weblog\/?p=698","title":{"rendered":"Instead of telling kids to &#8220;be good!&#8221;&#8230;.howabout &#8220;use your good!&#8221;"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>I recently found this quote by Eckhart Tolle.<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;You do not become good by trying to be good, but by finding the goodness that is already within you, and allowing that goodness to emerge.&#8221; (Eckhart Tolle, Oneness With All Life)<\/p>\n<p>Maybe we should tell kids, &#8220;Find your good! Access your good! Dig out your good and use it please!&#8221; instead of the tired old, &#8220;Be good, be good! Be GOOD!&#8221; \u00c2\u00a0Christianity and Judaism (Islam, too I guess) have always been basically guilt-mongering religions with so much emphasis on sin, sin, SIN and how &#8220;bad&#8221; we all are. I like this positive way of flipping things around.<\/p>\n<p>I have heard mothers say to their children things like, &#8220;don&#8217;t let your ugly out&#8221; and &#8220;sorry my ugly came out.&#8221; \u00c2\u00a0 I&#8217;ve heard ministers say that last to their congregations actually&#8230;hee hee. \u00c2\u00a0So we can refer to our inner good the same way. \u00c2\u00a0DO let your &#8220;good&#8221; out. A whole new tactic to use on the kiddos&#8230;. I am going to employ it right away&#8230;<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<!-- AddThis Advanced Settings generic via filter on the_content --><!-- AddThis Share Buttons generic via filter on the_content -->","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>I recently found this quote by Eckhart Tolle. &#8220;You do not become good by trying to be good, but by finding the goodness that is already within you, and allowing that goodness to emerge.&#8221; (Eckhart Tolle, Oneness With All Life) Maybe we should tell kids, &#8220;Find your good! Access your good! Dig out your good &hellip; <a href=\"https:\/\/www.northernway.org\/weblog\/?p=698\" class=\"more-link\">Continue reading <span class=\"screen-reader-text\">Instead of telling kids to &#8220;be good!&#8221;&#8230;.howabout &#8220;use your good!&#8221;<\/span><\/a><!-- AddThis Advanced Settings generic via filter on get_the_excerpt --><!-- AddThis Share Buttons generic via filter on get_the_excerpt --><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[190,40,128,2],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-698","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-consciousness","category-eckhart-tolle","category-religion","category-what-sunday-school-wont-teach"],"aioseo_notices":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.northernway.org\/weblog\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/698","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.northernway.org\/weblog\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.northernway.org\/weblog\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.northernway.org\/weblog\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.northernway.org\/weblog\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=698"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/www.northernway.org\/weblog\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/698\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":699,"href":"https:\/\/www.northernway.org\/weblog\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/698\/revisions\/699"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.northernway.org\/weblog\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=698"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.northernway.org\/weblog\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=698"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.northernway.org\/weblog\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=698"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}