{"id":54,"date":"2008-04-08T22:37:57","date_gmt":"2008-04-09T05:37:57","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.northernway.org\/weblog\/?p=54"},"modified":"2008-04-09T13:08:49","modified_gmt":"2008-04-09T20:08:49","slug":"having-unexpected-baby-you-are-unprepared-to-feed-dream-interp","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.northernway.org\/weblog\/?p=54","title":{"rendered":"Dream Interpretation: Having unexpected baby unprepared to feed"},"content":{"rendered":"
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Every week for the past 10 years I interpret two dreams for an advice column called The Dream Zone, which I co-write with Dr. Lauri Loewenberg “the Dream Lady”. I thought it might be fun to start posting them here…<\/p>\n

BOYFRIEND IN BED WITH ANOTHER WOMAN
\nMy dream was: I entered into my boyfriend’s room and I found him on bed with somebody else. I was able to see her face, but I was not able to recognize her. I grabbed her by the hair and threw her to the floor, and I also slapped her. My boyfriend had a smile on his face while all this was happening. Then I jumped on top of him and we start making out. Isn’t this weird? Hope you can help me interpret this dream.
\nEvelyn, Age 30, Miami, Florida<\/p>\n

Katia interprets: This is a fun dream with two messages for you. Your boyfriend secretly wants you to fight for him, to show how passionate you are about maintaining your relationship. He may be a bit childish in this desire, but it is not unhealthy. The other possible meaning for you (and both can be true at once, as is the unique nature of dreams) is that the woman is an aspect of your own personality. There is a man-stealing desire within you, flirtatiousness toward other men, which you don’t like, that you want to slap around and get rid of. You know it will please your boyfriend if you conquer and neutralize this behavior pattern, probably because he is a bit jealous when you smile or are otherwise friendly with other men.<\/p>\n<\/div>\n

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HAVING UNEXPECTED BABY YOU ARE UNPREPARED TO FEED
\n My name is Gina, 32 from California.\u00c2\u00a0I have this dream at least twice a month. It’s a little different each time but almost the same. In my dream I have a baby I wasn’t expecting. Like I was pregnant but didn’t know, and then all of a sudden I have this baby. And I’m trying to gather things to take care of it. In my dream I keep saying how happy I am but I am hurrying to go buy everything for the baby. But the weird part of the dream is that I keep forgetting to feed it. And the baby is crying. I bring it close to me and keep telling it how sorry I am for not feeding it. I tell myself in the dream why do you always forget to feed your baby and what a bad mother I am. Please HELP! This dream really bothers me after I wake up because I can’t seem to make sense of it. <\/em><\/p>\n

Katia interprets: \u00c2\u00a0Aha! The baby is a beloved but vulnerable part of your future, a long-term goal, a cherished project, that you feel bad about not seeing through.\u00c2\u00a0What future plan or vision for your life are you unprepared for? Every now and then an opportunity to nurture this vision comes suddenly and unasked into your life but you have never acted on it.\u00c2\u00a0You can’t keep focused enough to \u00e2\u20ac\u0153feed\u00e2\u20ac\u009d this wonderful thing.\u00c2\u00a0Is it something educational, some kind of occupational opportunity or other calling you keep passing up?\u00c2\u00a0The dream is trying to tell you you’re going to regret and feel guilty about this, so it’s time to take the plunge. Stock up on \u00e2\u20ac\u0153food\u00e2\u20ac\u009d for this great endeavor; prepare for the new and wonderful\u00c2\u00a0life that you very much want to give birth to. Next time this opportunity whatever it is, literally falls into your lap, you will have plenty of life force (baby milk) to energize it. The guilty feelings will be gone forever.\u00c2\u00a0Hard work and constant attention will be required, yes, as with all \u00e2\u20ac\u0153babies\u00e2\u20ac\u009d, but you are up to it. Good luck and get going!<\/p>\n

To submit your own dream for interpretation, please visit http:\/\/thedreamzone.com<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

Every week for the past 10 years I interpret two dreams for an advice column called The Dream Zone, which I co-write with Dr. Lauri Loewenberg “the Dream Lady”. I thought it might be fun to start posting them here… BOYFRIEND IN BED WITH ANOTHER WOMAN My dream was: I entered into my boyfriend’s room … Continue reading Dream Interpretation: Having unexpected baby unprepared to feed<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[22],"tags":[26,23,27,28],"class_list":["post-54","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-dreams","tag-baby","tag-dream-interpretation","tag-nurture","tag-project"],"aioseo_notices":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.northernway.org\/weblog\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/54","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.northernway.org\/weblog\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.northernway.org\/weblog\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.northernway.org\/weblog\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.northernway.org\/weblog\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=54"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/www.northernway.org\/weblog\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/54\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.northernway.org\/weblog\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=54"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.northernway.org\/weblog\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=54"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.northernway.org\/weblog\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=54"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}