{"id":1284,"date":"2017-05-23T21:07:16","date_gmt":"2017-05-24T01:07:16","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.northernway.org\/weblog\/?p=1284"},"modified":"2017-05-23T21:07:16","modified_gmt":"2017-05-24T01:07:16","slug":"pre-marriage-counseling-clergy-should-avoid-creating-life-time-religious-aversion","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.northernway.org\/weblog\/?p=1284","title":{"rendered":"Pre Marriage Counseling, Clergy Should Avoid Creating Life-time Religious Aversion"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignright size-full wp-image-1285\" src=\"http:\/\/www.northernway.org\/weblog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/05\/CounselingMarriage.jpg\" alt=\"Spiritual Pastoral Counseling before Marriage\" width=\"490\" height=\"358\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.northernway.org\/weblog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/05\/CounselingMarriage.jpg 490w, https:\/\/www.northernway.org\/weblog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/05\/CounselingMarriage-300x219.jpg 300w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 490px) 100vw, 490px\" \/>Enjoyed the articles in this week&#8217;s CT Pastors clergy newsletter (link below), especially the Pre-Marital counseling section. So many of us originally become ordained to officiate a wedding, and there is much wisdom clergy can convey before the marriage!<\/p>\n<p>Also very insightful (to me, at least) is the opening blurb how people get infected with a life-long aversion to the Bible, or to religion. \u00c2\u00a0I have met people who are so burned from childhood experiences of religion being shoved down their throats that they have a terrible bad taste in their mouth to all things religious. As clergy, we must ever strive not to be the source of someone&#8217;s life-long bad taste to religion, scripture or spirituality! I think this is also why so many say &#8220;I&#8217;m spiritual, but not religion,&#8221; because they just don&#8217;t trust organized religion. Since our network here is alternative clergy, alternative spirituality, and thus non-mainstream, we probably encounter more &#8220;burned&#8221; or bad-taste-in-their-mouth people.<\/p>\n<p>http:\/\/www.christianitytoday.com\/lyris\/ctpastors\/archives\/05-23-2017.html<\/p>\n<!-- AddThis Advanced Settings generic via filter on the_content --><!-- AddThis Share Buttons generic via filter on the_content -->","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Enjoyed the articles in this week&#8217;s CT Pastors clergy newsletter (link below), especially the Pre-Marital counseling section. So many of us originally become ordained to officiate a wedding, and there is much wisdom clergy can convey before the marriage! 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